This commit makes common external packages always be included through
find_package to eliminate differences in variables set, wraps
find_package for vendored libraries on Windows to factor out common
code, and removes miscellaneous useless code elsewhere in dependency
handling.
This also fixes a problem where pkg-config would pick up `build`
libraries instead of `host` when cross-compiling.
As a side effect, zlib and libpng are now git submodules,
based on their respective official git repositories.
This is necessary, because MinGW has a different ABI and
it cannot use the prebuilt binaries built by MSVC.
The submodules are also used for Windows, for several reasons:
* to allow 64-bit builds;
* to allow using newer MSVC, which doesn't like the prebuilt
libraries;
* to keep the libraries updated.
whitequark